Thank you for reading Jeff. I will comment on your two conclusions:

I didn't reject him because he was jobless. And when I asked him what he did with himself, he didn't say he studied either. I sense you're trying to make excuses for him, that maybe he wasn't saying all that he did, but he was given ample opportunity to talk about.

I don't feel like a victim; there is little mentioned to suggest I thought his actions (walking away) were wrong.

What happened was that I ended up feeling sorry for him. I feel like you may be missing the point of the story: don't date someone you pity. I don't dismiss what you're saying as a rant, quite the opposite, but the core message I feel like is missed. It wasn't about dating a jobless man, or study, or being the victim. It was about getting into relationships that don't feel right.

My bio is a disclaimer, as I write from experience. So the people in my stories can't come back and pursue legal action. And thank you for the spelling correction.

Thank you for reading.

Relationships. Drama. Gossip. Innuendo. Bad Dates. Failures. Learning about life/business/love the hard way. // instagram.com/ellenjellymcrae/

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