It feels like the core reason to keep your money separate is in case you want to escape/leave/separate/divorce. That doesn't seem very romantic to me. Whilst it's wise to protect yourself, it seems like you're planning for the inevitable. And if that's the case, was it really love?? You have me thinking. A great read.

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