I wanted to highlight everything on this list, because ALL of them are bang on. The way we judge, usually from our own hang ups, is gross. Time to change. Great read!
And by the way, I went to my gynaecologist and she assumed, based on my weight, that I couldn't conceive. Then she handed me a business card for a clinic that deals with fertility and diabetes. I did everything to hold my tongue, especially as she was overweight too.